If a child has average or above-average intelligence and is doing very poorly in school, he or she may have a learning disability (LD). There are many kinds of learning disabilities. Your child may have problems with listening, speaking, reading, writing, reasoning, or solving math problems.
Learning disabilities seem to be caused by the brain, but the exact causes are not yet known. They tend to run in families.
Your child is more likely to have a learning disability if you had a problem during pregnancy, such as an infection, or used drugs or alcohol during pregnancy. LDs are also more common in children who:
A child who has a learning disability may have other conditions, such as hearing problems or emotional problems. However, LDs are not caused by these conditions. They are also not caused by cultural differences or poor parenting.
There are many types of learning disabilities and they have a wide range of characteristics. Your child may have mild or severe problems. Your child may also have more than one LD. All learning-disabled children have poor or uneven academic achievement even though they have normal or above-normal intelligence. A child with an LD may have difficulties in one or many of the following areas:
Attention: Your child may have trouble paying attention, be impulsive, or get tired easily when trying to concentrate.
Language: Your child has trouble following directions and needs to have things repeated. He or she may use the wrong words or mix up words. Telling a story may be difficult because the events get mixed up.
Temporal-spatial orientation: Your child has trouble understanding time (such as the difference between tomorrow and next week). He or she may have trouble with directions and often get lost.
Visual processing: Your child may see letters or words backwards (for example, may confuse b's and d's or read "was" as "saw") even beyond 3rd grade. Learning to write may be difficult and has poor handwriting.
Auditory processing: Your child may have difficulty focusing on important sounds in the classroom instead of background noise. He or she may appear inattentive and have trouble following spoken instructions.
Memory: Your child has trouble remembering basic information like an address and phone number. It may be hard to remember multiplication tables or days of the week. Short-term memory may be a problem. Your child may forget classroom instructions or where they are in telling a story or in a conversation.
Motor control: Your child may have trouble with fine motor control. You may notice poor handwriting or your child may be slow in copying work from the board. If your child seems clumsy or awkward, he or she may have problems with gross motor control.
First you need to have your child evaluated. Ask your school to evaluate your child. You can also take your child to a private evaluator, but the school's testing may still be needed for your child to qualify for extra help at school. A team of people will test your child to find out exactly what the problems are and how to help your child. The evaluation includes testing and input from teachers and especially parents.
The team of people that may evaluate your child include a psychologist, a child psychiatrist, special education teacher, speech/language therapist, occupational therapist, physical therapist, social worker, or other health care providers.
Sometimes you are given one specific diagnosis. Other times it may be a combination of several learning disabilities. Some of the common disorders are:
The results of the testing will determine whether your child can have special education services provided at school. Some services are only given if your child has a certain diagnosis. Ask your school which disorders they provide special services for. Once you understand the problem you can help the school develop an Individualized Educational Plan (IEP). Parents must help write and agree with the IEP. The IEP must outline:
To get the best help for your child, you must work closely with the other team members. If you hear something surprising about your child or strongly disagree with the conclusions of the test, services, or therapies, voice your concerns at the IEP meeting. Signing the IEP means that you agree to the services, goals, and other matters listed in it.
If the school cannot offer special services, you can look for help from private tutors, learning centers, psychologists, and others to help with your child's specific problem. Even if your child is not on an IEP or in special education classes, your child's teacher can probably still make adjustments to assignments and help your child in the best way possible. Make sure you talk to your child's teacher.
Depending on the disability, there are many specific ways to help your child at home. But no matter what disability your child has it is very important to do the following:
Your child needs you to accept his condition. Give unconditional love and support. You can build up your child's self-esteem by consistently reminding him of his strengths. Your child may need counseling to help change views and expectations about themselves.